Divorce Considerations Around Christmas Time

For many separating couples, deciding to apply for a divorce is not an easy step, and our Family lawyers understand that Christmas can be a difficult time if you are considering separating. 

How do you initiate a divorce?

The introduction of no-fault divorce means that the process of applying for a divorce is relatively straightforward, and a divorce can be applied for without the need for one party to provide details of the other's conduct or evidence of a period of separation. 

The changes mean that one party, or a couple jointly, can apply for a divorce by confirming that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. 

The changes to the law mean that couples can apply for a divorce without blame being attached, allowing separating couples to concentrate on the process of agreeing on the arrangements for any children and considering how the financial resources will be split.

If you are thinking about applying for a divorce after Christmas, it is important to consider the practical steps that you can take now. 

It is important that you obtain legal advice from a specialist family lawyer as early as possible so that you understand what your options are. You need to get the right team in place to support you through your separation. 

It is important to consider what your financial needs are and the financial needs of any children.

You may need advice from other professionals such as accountants, mortgage advisers and pension on divorce experts to consider what any potential financial settlement will mean to you on a practical level.

Divorce is one of the most stressful life events and the second most stressful life event after the death of a spouse.

It is difficult to come to terms with not being with someone you thought you would be with forever, and there are usually five stages that separating couples will go through, including denial and shock, anger, bargaining, depression and sadness, and acceptance.

Consider obtaining support from a therapist or divorce coach who can provide emotional and practical support to assist you with the process.