What Will a Narcissist Do When You Divorce Them?

Narcissistic Personality Disorder is defined in the dictionary as "a person with an excessive interest in themselves".

It can generally be characterised by an inflated feeling of self-importance and the desire to be acknowledged for achievements and success.

Some common narcissistic traits include:

• Lack of empathy
• Manipulative and exploitative behaviours
• Persistent fantasies about success, power, and attractiveness
• Sense of entitlement and social importance
• Arrogance and contemptuous attitudes and behaviours
• Believes that others are envious of him/her and envy of others.

There is a broad spectrum of narcissistic behaviours.

Narcissists have a desire to win, which can be a very worrying consideration in the context of divorce and financial remedy proceedings.

Narcissists tend to exploit or take advantage of others for personal gain.

A narcissist's desire to control means that it can be difficult for them to engage in any form of full and frank financial disclosure on a voluntary basis.

Even if they are prepared to disclose, it is important to carefully analyse the disclosure provided to ensure it reflects an accurate financial picture.

If there are aspects of disclosure missing, the spouse will need to raise a questionnaire or consider issuing court proceedings.

Only when court proceedings are issued can a judge compel parties to disclose information.

A narcissist will likely try to delay or frustrate the proceedings to ensure matters can be on their terms.

Their desire for sympathy and lack of empathy can make negotiations a long and drawn-out process which can have an adverse effect on costs.

Often, court proceedings are required to deal with narcissistic traits.

It is important to seek help from a specialist family lawyer to assist with the process.